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Your spouse isn’t trying to be a jerk. They just don’t think like you. 🙄

Even if you’ve complained a thousand times about how much work it is to get the kids to bed all by yourself every night…

They’re not gonna volunteer to take over. 🙅‍♂️

Why?

Because they’re helping from their perspective, not yours. 🙃

They think they’re:

💁 Staying out of your way.
💁 Letting you have fun with the kids.
💁 Avoiding an argument.

And that’s helpful…right?

It’s just not the kind of help you want. But they don’t understand that. 😬

Understanding how you want to be helped and how they’re trying to help is the first step to feeling more supported in your relationship. 💡

The next step is learning how to communicate your needs in a way that your partner will actually understand. I help my clients do both.

Use the link in my bio to book a sales call with me for 1:1 coaching and you can have a more supportive relationship in 6 months. Let’s go! 🙌🏽
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You’re busy and you don’t have time for the shenanigans. So you put everything you need to do on your calendar.

🗓 The kid’s after school activities.
🗓 Community volunteering.
🗓 Happy hour with your homegirls.
🗓 Date night.

You even block off time to do things for yourself, like scheduling your annual well woman exam or cleaning out your purse.

Because if it’s not on the calendar, it ain’t happening. (Same, sis…same. 😔)

The problem is that even when you put things for yourself on your calendar, it’s always tentative and negotiable.

So when someone asks if you’re free to help them out, you bump your appointment with yourself to be available for them.

And suddenly you’re 3 months overdue on that exam. And you’re finding receipts from 6 months ago in your purse. 🫣

But what if you honored appointments with yourself the way you honored appointments you make with others?

Try this going forward:

➡️ If it’s on your calendar, you show up for it. If you’re not sure you can commit to something, put it on a list, not on your calendar.

Then pay attention to what you’re quick to commit to, and what you hesitate to schedule.

Book a sales call with me for 1:1 coaching, get help building the habit of consistently showing up for yourself, not just for everyone else. 🫶🏽
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Tired of quitting on yourself every time you have a bad day?

Swipe through for a fresh perspective and 3 simple steps to turn your bad day around.

Book a sales call with me for 1:1 coaching and get the tools you need to opt out of bad days forever. ✌🏽
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You don’t need pressure if you just trust yourself to execute. 💯

Book a sales call with me for 1:1 coaching and learn how to show up for yourself all the time, not just when you have a deadline. 💁🏽‍♀️

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You’ve heard “It takes money to make money” but here’s my remix:
𝗜𝘁 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲.

Lemme explain.

I used to be the queen 👸🏽 of winging it. Living for freedom and flexibility and changing things up on a whim.

Making too many plans cramped my style. So I ran around making most decisions in real-time.

Unfortunately, I struggled with actually making decisions. 😬🤷🏽‍♀️

So when it was time to get dressed for work, or pick a topic for an article I was writing, it took me F O R E V E R. 😩

And because it took me forever to decide on anything, I thought I never had time to decide anything in advance (a.k.a. make plans).

It was a vicious cycle.

Then one day, I started experimenting with plans.

🐌 Picking out my clothes for work the night before.
🐌 Deciding on Sunday what I’d cook for dinner on Wednesday.
🐌 Scheduling my next hair appointment as I left the salon.

These were small plans, but the impact was huge.

Decisions that took me minutes to make in the present saved me hours in the future.

And that’s the magic of planning. 🪄🎩⏳✨🤩

I can help you work the same magic in your life.

Book a sales call with me for 1:1 coaching to learn how to make better plans and decisions that create more time freedom in your life. I’ll help you recover 12 hours a month of lost time in your schedule. 🙌🏽
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You know what we don’t talk about nearly enough? The fact that everything in life comes with a hard part. 💥💥💥

You expect things to be hard when you don’t have what you want.

🤌🏽 It’s hard to let your less qualified boss take the credit for your brilliant work.
🤌🏽 It’s hard to take time off when working less means a lower paycheck.
🤌🏽 It’s hard to be so busy that you live off of 4 hours of sleep a night.

You don’t like it, but it makes sense that it’s hard. It’s not what you want.

But you get blindsided when you reach your goals…and, surprise! IT’S STILL HARD. 😵‍💫

😞 It’s hard to be responsible for managing a team at work.
😞 It’s hard to find time for yourself when you have young kids.
😞 It’s hard to sit down and relax when there are still chores on your to-do list.

Having a life that is both personally and professionally balanced is hard.

But it’s totally possible for you. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

You just have to make peace with the hard part that comes with the life you want.

Otherwise, you’ll end up sabotaging your own success over and over again.

Book a sales call with me for 1:1 coaching (link in bio) and get the tools and support you need to handle the hard part of success in all areas of your life. ✌🏽

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